Saturday, 24 November 2012

Secrets to SUCCESS


Hi all.I dn't knw why im so keen to share abt success!If u ask me,what makes a person successful?well,based on my experience,I'm willing to share my thoughts with all of you,readers ! It's just a simple one frm me.For me,inspiration is one of d utmost imprtnt towards success instead of your hard wrk.Inspiration can be mny sort of things like having a supportive family,friends n teachers,believing in the words never to give up,inspiration of success in our life stories and also our surroundings that actually inspired us alot.For example,we cn mke a comparisons between ppl arnd us n ourselves and to alwys have positive value by believing that if he/she can,I definitely can!Don't ever lost your inspiration in life and I believe you  can succeed : ) Alwys believe what actually inspire you to chnge,to achieve what you wnt,to hold firmly things tht motivates you and stick with what u love <3<3

Here are some secrets to the door of success which I think will works if u really consider.


1. How You Think is Everything.
Always be positive. Think Success, not Failure. Beware of a negative environment.
This trait has to be one of the most important in the entire list. Your belief that you can accomplish your goals has to be unwavering. The moment you say to yourself “I can’t…”, then you won’t. I was always given the advice “never say I can’t” and I’d like to strike those words from the dictionary.
I’ve found that from time-to-time my attitude waivers. A mentor of mine once said “it’s ok to visit pity city, but you can’t stay and there comes a time when you need to leave”. Positive things happen to positive people.
2. Decide upon Your True Dreams and Goals: Write down your specific goals and develop a plan to reach them.
Write down my dreams and goals? Develop a plan to reach them? You mean like a project plan? Yes, that’s exactly what this means. You may have heard the old adage: A New Years resolution that isn’t written down is just a dream, and dreams are not goals.
Goals are those concrete, measurable stepping stones of achievement that track your progress towards your dreams. My goal is to start a second career as a freelance writer – what are your goals?
3. Take Action. Goals are nothing without action.
Be like Nike and “Just do it”. I took action by reaching out and started writing. Every day I try to take some action towards my goals. It may be small, but it’s still an action. Have you taken action towards your goals?
4. Never Stop Learning: Go back to school or read books. Get training & acquire skills.
Becoming a life long learner would benefit us all and is something we should instill in our kids. It’s funny that once you’re out of school you realize how enjoyable learning can be. What have you learned today?
5. Be Persistent and Work Hard: Success is a marathon, not a sprint. Never give up.
I think every story of success I read entails long hard hours of work. There is no getting around this and there is no free lunch. But, if you’re working towards something that you’re passionate about, something you love – then is it really work?
6. Learn to Analyze Details: Get all the facts, all the input. Learn from your mistakes.
I think you have to strike a balance between getting all the facts and making a decision with incomplete data – both are traits of successful people. Spend time gathering details, but don’t catch ‘analysis paralysis’.
7. Focus Your Time And Money: Don’t let other people or things distract you.
Remain laser focused on your goals and surround yourself with positive people that believe in you. Don’t be distracted by the naysayer’s or tasks that are not helping you achieve your goals.
8. Don’t Be Afraid To Innovate: Be different. Following the herd is a sure way to mediocrity.
Follow through on that break-out idea you have. Ask yourself “What would I do if I wasn’t afraid?”
9. Deal And Communicate With People Effectively: No person is an island. Learn to understand and motivate others.
Successful people develop and nurture a network and they only do that by treating people openly, fairly and many times firmly. There is nothing wrong about being firm – just don’t cross the a-hole line. How do you deal with people?
10. Be Honest And Dependable: Take responsibility, otherwise numbers 1 – 9 won’t matter.

The problem with most people is that they are well on their way to success when an obstacle decides to block their path. Most people will attempt to jump this hurdle or blast through the challenging brick wall but when rejected, they decide to turn around, give up and walk away because the task is just too challenging. Most people don’t have the burning desire and persistence to realize their dreams because they feel it’s easier to just be average and carry on like 98-99% of the rest of the world.

“Before success comes in any man’s life, he’s sure to meet with much temporary defeat and, perhaps some failures. When defeat overtakes a man, the easiest and the most logical thing to do is to quit. That’s exactly what the majority of men do”. – Napoleon Hill

That's all from me : ) ) Have a nice day everyone ! Shall share great stuffs n stories of my life in the nxt post which i dn't knw when??haha.Thank you for reading.All the best to the route of success!
Lots of love <3<3<3





Saturday, 3 November 2012

You are my courage

It had been 1 year,1 month n 4 days!I seem to accpt little n little of the thngs tht hd hppnd between us.What im sure of ,you are alwys my courage,strength n inspiration in life.I promised tht i will be happier than you,to exceed your success in career,to stay strong just like u,and to alwys being positive like u.You made me learn frm my mistakes n failures n never fail to support me frm far.Few months ago,i remmbr you told me,to alwys be the best ,believe in myself that i cn do what i wnt n to also love my parents.You are alwys a reminder for me in my life.To me you are a friend,philosopher and guide whch are all molded into one person.Your care and support will alwys be remmebered,fondly in good times and as encouragement in bad .


Everything had come to an end.No words can express,no act of gratitude can relay,no gift can represent what yr care and support have meant to me.During the period of  8 years,u chnged me alot.You chnge my perspectives of life,you showed me what happiness really is, you chnge me from bad to good,you chnge the confidence in me and u taught me thre's no 'gvng up' in life.Thank you for alwys being wif me in those years.What I apprecte the most,you never fail to believe in me at times of failure.You makes me frgt what is failure n show me the route to succss.Impossible thngs becme a possible fr me because of you.Thank u fr willng to hear and undrstd me.As thngs cme into knowing u mre,it's d time to say gdbye to u.god's willng.

Im sorry for d rest of my life,I cn't b a bettr ... of yours.I told you I dun wnt to b yr best ....bcz i will b alwys chnging myself to b a bettr person everydy.I'm sorry fr causing trouble to you and to dissapoint u but still you dn't hate me.Smtms,i scared i forgt the facts tht u r away cz thre's no mre forever.

Alwys pray for yr succss,happinss n blissfulness in life .

Sincerely,







Thursday, 1 November 2012

Waving October & Facing November

Halo readers.firstly im sorry for nt posting anything for so long.haha.thank u all fr willing to visit my blog.Im just too lazy to decrte my blog and just focus on the contents.It had been almost 2 weeks,new sem started.To sum up everythng in the 2 weeks, i could say tht,it is a tiring week .Sometimes when i came bck frm classes n sat on my bed with my laptop,I will eventually sleep with my laptop.Haha.last week,i had an enjyable weeknds with my family in KL as well as relatives.Maybe the next time I will meet them nxt yr on chinese new year ! take care everyone : ) we did lots of stuff together and I took some pictures here with me.Sorry fr the blurred image n the photos are aftr my writings.Besides hvng sweet things tht happend,thre's alwys bitter things to happen.God won't make it perfect fr me.what cn i say abt bitter thngs tht happend to me??well shortly,friendship problem mybe.I dun blame anybdy but me.thank u God fr gvng me the experience to face friendship problem bcz at the same time you make me a strongr person and you make me to have the feeling of making new friends.It had bn a long time ,the feeling dissapears.Honstly,this is the frst time such  friendshp problm happns to me cz in previous years everythng are so fine .Me myself really frget hw to make friends bcz i use to adapt with my old environmnts too much.If i really make any mistakes in making friendships,please forgve me : ) Thank you.
The othr things are,I apprcte a friend of mine, who is a good n mature person .I made up my mind, and he will be just my friend forever.I value our friendship and that's why I dun wanna lost a friend like him.I wnt to hve a friendship with him just like the early of 1st semester.Sorry for creating any troubles to you.Hope our friendship still remains n I wnt to avoid those awkward feelings in me.Thank you fr willng to b my friend and I  cherish you as my friend forever.
wish for myself in the month of november-I juz hope for a happy friendship,tht's enough : )

Love & Faith




My cousin's birthday at his hse in Mont Kiara


Footspa : ) - Berjaya Times Square .
Im jz seeing them bcz it's 12am n i alrdy chnge my pyjamas


KLCC



Water fountain in KLCC


Midvalley : )